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Re: Warning: Sensitive subject. I might offend.
« Reply #30 on: June 02, 2015, 14:14:16 PM »
NO my name is not that, Xenalite.
Just because I am standing up for what I believe  does not make me a "whiney little lady person."

DR-EVIL,
one would think that I just asked NRNS to single handedly change the world.
Yet I didn't even expressly request that people STOP using the word. I was merely pointing out how I feel about it. And I gave possible reasons to support why I might feel that way. Because I knew I'd get a lot of pigheaded replies about it.
I didn't ask for a BAN on the word. We're not a bunch of babies and everybody can speak as they choose.
But I have the right to voice my opinion. People have a right to know that they do not have to talk like delinquent retards to be part of a gaming community.

The word in question is not camping, or pwnage. It is RAPE.
Yet somehow, I'M the one with the problem.

I also game to relax and have fun. But I'm not so caught up in my escapist crap that I can't see the wood for the trees.
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« Reply #31 on: June 02, 2015, 14:41:12 PM »
i get what you said fully. no question about it. but like i said its not going to change anything here as in a ever changing world. this is the way people act.

no one said it was right. the facts are the older i get the worse the younger generation gets with how they talk on and offline. Everyone now disrespects everyone in some way. thats the way it is in this world.

dont mean its right or wrong as it depends on the age group you fall in to. I fully understand how things change. I was never in home when i was 10- 16. I was always out climbing trees, swimming in the rivers, falling of my bike. I wasnt wrapped up in a bubble that every graze needed a visit to the local hospital like the kids of today.

lots i dont agree with in the world but im not about to post it all here as there is other websites that it would be better posted on.

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« Reply #32 on: June 02, 2015, 14:42:48 PM »
fing hell. what aload of bullshit. on this website. before you all jump on the comment i just made think about everything im saying.

this is a place to forget real life issues regardless of where your from. I do not post all the shit happening where i am as that is not what this community is about. its about gaming. there is no way you as a player can have a perfect gaming round of any game with out one of the words typed been offensive to someone. that is a fact.

Im sorry that shit like that happens where you are really i am but i didnt come to nrns website to read about it as ignorance is bliss. what i dont know cant bother me. another fact.  the fact that i now know changes nothing as all the things you said are still happening. so what is the point??? this is a gaming website that has no power over real life issues. some will say im cold in what i am saying but i can only deal with facts.

most words have multi meanings this is the way of the world which all use. so next time you want to post something from real life ask yourself if your doing it to.

we stop this i ask where the end will be since every word can be seen as disrespect to someone.

If I start telling people they are dumb niggers, or im on a nigger killing spree or wow what  you are such a nigger then it would be A OK on nrns!
If someone then creates a post and say oh wow I see people are using a very offensive term so loosely and I wish people would just stop using the word nigger in gaming then the NRNS comunity would just slam that person down to hell and tell him to shut the hell up and dont have an opinion you stupid child.

If people can just read stuff like this then it would already help them, they can start to think wow damit maybe I should not just use these words so loosely, there are thousands of words you can use instead!
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« Reply #33 on: June 02, 2015, 14:50:55 PM »
Its interesting how you speak about people who has different views than you on this thread :

 "pigheaded replies" and "people speak like delincuents retards"

That people who has made that pigheaded replies and speak like delincuents retards ...has the same right you have to voice their (our) opinions also has the same right to not be called like that and been so respected as you are while they express their views .






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« Reply #34 on: June 02, 2015, 14:56:51 PM »
fing hell. what aload of bullshit. on this website. before you all jump on the comment i just made think about everything im saying.

this is a place to forget real life issues regardless of where your from. I do not post all the shit happening where i am as that is not what this community is about. its about gaming. there is no way you as a player can have a perfect gaming round of any game with out one of the words typed been offensive to someone. that is a fact.

Im sorry that shit like that happens where you are really i am but i didnt come to nrns website to read about it as ignorance is bliss. what i dont know cant bother me. another fact.  the fact that i now know changes nothing as all the things you said are still happening. so what is the point??? this is a gaming website that has no power over real life issues. some will say im cold in what i am saying but i can only deal with facts.

most words have multi meanings this is the way of the world which all use. so next time you want to post something from real life ask yourself if your doing it to.

we stop this i ask where the end will be since every word can be seen as disrespect to someone.

If I start telling people they are dumb niggers, or im on a nigger killing spree or wow what  you are such a nigger then it would be A OK on nrns!
If someone then creates a post and say oh wow I see people are using a very offensive term so loosely and I wish people would just stop using the word nigger in gaming then the NRNS comunity would just slam that person down to hell and tell him to shut the hell up and dont have an opinion you stupid child.

If people can just read stuff like this then it would already help them, they can start to think wow damit maybe I should not just use these words so loosely, there are thousands of words you can use instead!

The word nigger is forbidden as is a racist and disrespectful way to call someone .... so i really doubt you had seen someone saying that in front of any admin without be warned or punished .

If you cant see the difference between both, well ... what can i say ?




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« Reply #35 on: June 02, 2015, 15:02:03 PM »
Dr Evil, your second post is less angry. Thank you  :P

The problem is always that pretty much 99% of people who can make a positive difference, think that their difference will be too small or insignificant. Or they just don't have the courage, or they think that it is not the time or place. Or they are too tired.

For me, I said what I wanted to say. And in spite of all the negativity I got from doing that, I am glad that I did.
I am old and ugly enough to know how small we really are.
But I also know that even this tiny small little insignificant post in the massive cyberuniverse could have a positive effect.
Even if it is on a subject that is seemingly insignificant - all things have the potential to have a domino effect, whether positive or negative.

If just ONE other person reads this post and decides they are going to discourage the use of that term somewhere in gaming, I have already made a difference with what I've said.

@Pongo - look at what I've said and then look at what you've said.
I am against the use of the word rape. You say its no problem.
You even used it trivially in this thread again, fully aware that I would hate it.
In which universe am I the bad guy? I am sorry if you found the word pig-headed offensive. Where I come from it means 'obstinate'. Perhaps in your culture it has a more negative meaning. Does rape have a less negative meaning in your culture than in mine?
As for my delinquent retard remark, it was a poor choice of words and I apologize. I should have said a delinquent ignorant instead.
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« Reply #36 on: June 02, 2015, 15:09:02 PM »
Dr Evil, your second post is less angry. Thank you  :P

The problem is always that pretty much 99% of people who can make a positive difference, think that their difference will be too small or insignificant. Or they just don't have the courage, or they think that it is not the time or place. Or they are too tired.

For me, I said what I wanted to say. And in spite of all the negativity I got from doing that, I am glad that I did.
I am old and ugly enough to know how small we really are.
But I also know that even this tiny small little insignificant post in the massive cyberuniverse could have a positive effect.
Even if it is on a subject that is seemingly insignificant - all things have the potential to have a domino effect, whether positive or negative.

If just ONE other person reads this post and decides they are going to discourage the use of that term somewhere in gaming, I have already made a difference with what I've said.


I have not replied with any aggressiveness. If i had then this post would of exploded with personal views.   

if you really think its going to change anything then i wish you luck. The fact is most will read this jump in a game and forget ever reading it. The only reason people are replying right now is for something to do. its sad but true.

Have you thought that most really do not care. ignorance is bliss remember!


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« Reply #37 on: June 02, 2015, 15:11:05 PM »
Dr Evil, your second post is less angry. Thank you  :P

The problem is always that pretty much 99% of people who can make a positive difference, think that their difference will be too small or insignificant. Or they just don't have the courage, or they think that it is not the time or place. Or they are too tired.

For me, I said what I wanted to say. And in spite of all the negativity I got from doing that, I am glad that I did.
I am old and ugly enough to know how small we really are.
But I also know that even this tiny small little insignificant post in the massive cyberuniverse could have a positive effect.
Even if it is on a subject that is seemingly insignificant - all things have the potential to have a domino effect, whether positive or negative.

If just ONE other person reads this post and decides they are going to discourage the use of that term somewhere in gaming, I have already made a difference with what I've said.

@Pongo - look at what I've said and then look at what you've said.
I am against the use of the word rape. You say its no problem.
You even used it trivially in this thread again, fully aware that I would hate it.
In which universe am I the bad guy? I am sorry if you found the word pig-headed offensive. Where I come from it means 'obstinate'. Perhaps in your culture it has a more negative meaning. Does rape have a less negative meaning in your culture than in mine?
As for my delinquent retard remark, it was a poor choice of words and I apologize. I should have said a delinquent ignorant instead.


You can say what you have to say without telling people theyre delinquant retards...

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« Reply #38 on: June 02, 2015, 15:14:22 PM »
If most really didn't care, there wouldn't be so many negative replies on my OP.

Most people wouldn't have bothered to reply.

Have you wondered why everybody thinks its so important to tell me I'm wrong?

Most people will forget it yes. Not all.
If you live your life in resigned apathy then that is fine. But that is not how I choose to live mine.

We are always encouraged to stand up for what we believe in. The funny thing is that as soon as we do, one half tells us we're wrong and the other half tells us not to bother because we'll never change anything.

Thats the really sad thing.

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« Reply #39 on: June 02, 2015, 15:16:27 PM »
And you can say what you want to say without the word rape.

If you see my earler post, you'll see I've apologised for that.
But that's quite right, of course everybody will jump on the ONE bad word choice I've made. Even though I'm contesting  a term and an entire mindset used by millions, you will use one thing said one time by one person (me) to prove me wrong hey. That's great logic right there.
Also I called nobody that, I said LIKE a delinquent....
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« Reply #40 on: June 02, 2015, 15:29:40 PM »
If most really didn't care, there wouldn't be so many negative replies on my OP.

Most people wouldn't have bothered to reply.

Have you wondered why everybody thinks its so important to tell me I'm wrong?

Most people will forget it yes. Not all.
If you live your life in resigned apathy then that is fine. But that is not how I choose to live mine.

We are always encouraged to stand up for what we believe in. The funny thing is that as soon as we do, one half tells us we're wrong and the other half tells us not to bother because we'll never change anything.

Thats the really sad thing.


As said Dr-Evil, you're on a multi-gaming community website. Players and members are coming here to leave ''IRL (In real life)'' behind and have fun by playing games. You don't have to take everything directly personal. I don't take what players are telling me seriously most of the time and I do that everyday by reading what people are posting on the forum, because it's not the place to have. What happens in your life is personal and should only be shared with people that you're sure at 100% that will care such as family. See I know most of the members of NRNS personally and I didn't even share opinions like you did, because it will change nothing + it's not the place on this forum. You can share you opinion yes, but you could not too.

Hope you enjoy your argue because I'm out of this topic. It will be like an other spam topic in less than 2 days and will be locked or threw in a dark hole.

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« Reply #41 on: June 02, 2015, 15:32:48 PM »
I don't care wheys. Somebody else who agrees with me has already seen this.

This has nothing to do with my personal life. It is an opinion based on my perception of decency. 
I must admit that I was surprised at the amount of negativity this generated.
But I see now that a manifesto such as what is on the NRNS front page cannot be taken literally.
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« Reply #42 on: June 02, 2015, 15:40:56 PM »
If most really didn't care, there wouldn't be so many negative replies on my OP.

Most people wouldn't have bothered to reply.

Have you wondered why everybody thinks its so important to tell me I'm wrong?

Most people will forget it yes. Not all.
If you live your life in resigned apathy then that is fine. But that is not how I choose to live mine.

We are always encouraged to stand up for what we believe in. The funny thing is that as soon as we do, one half tells us we're wrong and the other half tells us not to bother because we'll never change anything.

Thats the really sad thing.


As said Dr-Evil, you're on a multi-gaming community website. Players and members are coming here to leave ''IRL (In real life)'' behind and have fun by playing games. You don't have to take everything directly personal. I don't take what players are telling me seriously most of the time and I do that everyday by reading what people are posting on the forum, because it's not the place to have. What happens in your life is personal and should only be shared with people that you're sure at 100% that will care such as family. See I know most of the members of NRNS personally and I didn't even share opinions like you did, because it will change nothing + it's not the place on this forum. You can share you opinion yes, but you could not too.

Hope you enjoy your argue because I'm out of this topic. It will be like an other spam topic in less than 2 days and will be locked or threw in a dark hole.

Cheers


What you are saying is, that no one should have a say about anything. Maybe you should write a rule book for nrns, would be very helpful, make it into a pdf so that everyone can download it and print it out.

Yeah lets all shut up about anything thats serious, who cares about serious topics, everything is just fun and games.

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« Reply #43 on: June 02, 2015, 15:44:31 PM »
Yup, that is the mentality.

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« Reply #44 on: June 02, 2015, 15:45:26 PM »
If most really didn't care, there wouldn't be so many negative replies on my OP.

Most people wouldn't have bothered to reply.

Have you wondered why everybody thinks its so important to tell me I'm wrong?

Most people will forget it yes. Not all.
If you live your life in resigned apathy then that is fine. But that is not how I choose to live mine.

We are always encouraged to stand up for what we believe in. The funny thing is that as soon as we do, one half tells us we're wrong and the other half tells us not to bother because we'll never change anything.

Thats the really sad thing.


As said Dr-Evil, you're on a multi-gaming community website. Players and members are coming here to leave ''IRL (In real life)'' behind and have fun by playing games. You don't have to take everything directly personal. I don't take what players are telling me seriously most of the time and I do that everyday by reading what people are posting on the forum, because it's not the place to have. What happens in your life is personal and should only be shared with people that you're sure at 100% that will care such as family. See I know most of the members of NRNS personally and I didn't even share opinions like you did, because it will change nothing + it's not the place on this forum. You can share you opinion yes, but you could not too.

Hope you enjoy your argue because I'm out of this topic. It will be like an other spam topic in less than 2 days and will be locked or threw in a dark hole.

Cheers


What you are saying is, that no one should have a say about anything. Maybe you should write a rule book for nrns, would be very helpful, make it into a pdf so that everyone can download it and print it out.

Yeah lets all shut up about anything thats serious, who cares about serious topics, everything is just fun and games.

thank you for the advise will look in to it.

back to the fun and games i go.

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